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P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst “Chlapi nepl\u00e1\u010dou? Nesmysl.”<\/span> »<\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2025-02-24","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"pazity.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294237_w2147_t1506113433.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294237_w2147_t1506113433.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/chlapi-neplacou-nesmysl\/","wordCount":497,"articleBody":"Je\u0161t\u011b chv\u00edli bre\u010d, a j\u00e1 ti k tomu d\u00e1m d\u016fvod. To byla jedna z obl\u00edben\u00fdch v\u011bt m\u00e9 matky, kterou jsem poslouchala cel\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed. M\u00e1m ale \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. Narodila jsem se jako holka, tak\u017ee ob\u010dasn\u00e9 slzy byly spole\u010densky akceptovan\u00e9. Moji d\u011bt\u0161t\u00ed kamar\u00e1di si ale \u010dasto museli vyslechnout \u017ee \u201ekluci nebre\u010d\u00ed\u201c nebo \u201enebu\u010f f\u0148ukna\u201c. Kluk\u016fm bylo povoleno bre\u010det maxim\u00e1ln\u011b bolest\u00ed p\u0159i rozbit\u00e9m kolen\u011b nebo od\u0159en\u00e9m lokti. Jindy ne. Jejich rodi\u010de se b\u00e1li, \u017ee z\u00a0takov\u00fdch kluk\u016f vyrostou mam\u00e1nci, uf\u0148uk\u00e1nci a zak\u0159iknut\u00ed ho\u0161\u00edci, kte\u0159\u00ed se v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b neprosad\u00ed. Mus\u00ed to tak ale opravdu b\u00fdt?Emoce m\u00e1me v\u0161ichni, a jsou z\u00e1kladn\u00edm n\u00e1strojem na\u0161eho p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. C\u00edt\u00edme \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m n\u011bco povede, smutek, kdy\u017e se neda\u0159\u00ed, dok\u00e1\u017eeme milovat i nen\u00e1vid\u011bt. Slzy k\u00a0emoc\u00edm neodmysliteln\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed, u n\u011bkoho v\u00edce, u n\u011bkoho m\u00e9n\u011b. N\u011bkdo nab\u00edr\u00e1 u\u017e p\u0159i videu se \u0161t\u011b\u0148\u00e1tky, s\u00a0jin\u00fdm nehne ani Titanic. V\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u00e1m ale slzy pom\u00e1haj\u00ed tyto emoce zpracovat. Pokud se tedy br\u00e1n\u00edme pl\u00e1\u010di a projevu emoc\u00ed obecn\u011b, tak potla\u010dujeme svou p\u0159irozenost. To m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st nap\u0159\u00edklad k\u00a0pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm psychick\u00fdm probl\u00e9m\u016fm, obt\u00ed\u017e\u00edm v\u00a0komunikaci a v\u00a0navazov\u00e1n\u00ed vztah\u016f.Emoce se v\u017edy d\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji v\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9 form\u011b projev\u00ed. Potla\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee fungovat jen do ur\u010dit\u00e9ho bodu, a po n\u011bm slo\u017eit\u011b budovan\u00e1 maska prask\u00e1. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed dlouhodob\u011b nemaj\u00ed mo\u017enost uvolnit nap\u011bt\u00ed, a\u0165 u\u017e je to dan\u00e9 v\u00fdchovou, nebo t\u0159eba povol\u00e1n\u00edm, jsou tak \u010dasto n\u00e1chyln\u00ed k\u00a0psychick\u00fdm pot\u00ed\u017e\u00edm, jako jsou deprese, nebo i civiliza\u010dn\u00edm nemocem, jako je vysok\u00fd krevn\u00ed tlak. Emoce z\u00a0t\u011bchto lid\u00ed vytryskuj\u00ed v\u00a0ne\u010dekan\u00fdch momentech, co\u017e v\u00fdrazn\u011b komplikuje jejich osobn\u00ed i pracovn\u00ed \u017eivot.Jsou samoz\u0159ejm\u011b momenty, kdy se d\u011btsk\u00fd pl\u00e1\u010d a k\u0159ik prost\u011b nehod\u00ed. V\u00a0obchod\u011b, u doktora nebo t\u0159eba v\u00a0dopravn\u00edm prost\u0159edku, tam v\u0161ude nejsou d\u011btsk\u00e9 emoce p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1ny pr\u00e1v\u011b s\u00a0pochopen\u00edm, a je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee zoufal\u00fd rodi\u010d se sna\u017e\u00ed alespo\u0148 zvukov\u00e9 projevy tlumit. N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti mohou tak\u00e9 slzy vyu\u017e\u00edvat k\u00a0manipulaci sv\u00fdm okol\u00edm. \u0158e\u0161en\u00edm ale nen\u00ed sna\u017eit d\u011btsk\u00e9 city potla\u010dit dlouhodob\u011b, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e pomoci d\u00edt\u011bti pochopit, co vlastn\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed. Pokud si tedy chce v\u00e1\u0161 potomek v\u00a0klidu poplakat, a\u0165 u\u017e kv\u016fli \u0161r\u00e1mu na koleni nebo u filmu \u010di kv\u016fli st\u011bhov\u00e1n\u00ed kamar\u00e1da, nebra\u0148te mu. Daleko sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e uf\u0148uk\u00e1nka vychov\u00e1te du\u0161evn\u011b zdrav\u00e9ho, stabiln\u00edho mu\u017ee. "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Chlapi nepl\u00e1\u010dou? Nesmysl.","item":"https:\/\/www.pazity.cz\/chlapi-neplacou-nesmysl\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]